When a loved one gets diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, a form of Dementia, it can be devastating. You’ll want to visit them often to offer comfort and support.
As symptoms worsen, their communication may become more limited or non-existent. It’s important to educate yourself on the disease and learn how best to interact with the individual, so you can make the most of your time spent together.
Remember, Alzheimer’s is a complicated disease, and as it progresses, your visits can grow more difficult or even uncomfortable, especially if your friend or family member begins to no longer recognize you. It’s best to not take it personally and always remain calm and kind throughout your interaction.
Read on for Open Arms Solutions’ blog, 6 Tips for Visiting Someone with Alzheimer’s.
1. Introduce yourself.
It’s no easy task to act like a stranger to someone you know well, but by stating upfront who you are, it’ll likely make your loved one calmer, and less embarrassed if they don’t recognize you.
2. Make eye contact.
Eye contact keeps people engaged with the conversation no matter their health status. Be sure to make eye contact with your loved one so they can follow what you’re saying and remain alert for the conversation.
3. Speak slowly.
Alzheimer’s patients need to concentrate on communicating and comprehending what you’re saying, so by speaking slowly you will have a better chance of getting your words across clearly to them and having them understand what you’re saying correctly.
4. Bring a familiar item.
Often when you have a sentimental item that reminds you of your loved one, it makes you happy to reminisce. Bringing that object or picture with you and sharing it with them will bring them happiness, as well. It may also spark a memory for them and make for a nice visit.
5. Take their lead.
Alzheimer’s patients have bad and good days. Feel out their mood as you enter their room (whether that be at their home or in a facility) and take their cue. If it seems as though they want you to talk, you should. However, if you sense they want you to just sit and keep them company – maybe hold their hand in silence – that’s what you should do.
6. Refrain from correcting them
The last thing you want to do is correct a person with Alzheimer’s or get them upset. If they call you the wrong name or start telling stories that don’t make sense, simply let them.
Our team at Open Arms Solutions has expertise in caring for individuals with Alzheimer’s and Dementia. We support our caregivers by offering world class training—so that your loved one is in the best hands whether they’re in their own home or one of our Greater Chicago facilities.